Sometimes we limit our life’s choices to two paths or only two answers; one that may feel “right” and the other may feel “wrong.” Which job do I take? Which school do I go to?
We start to lend pros and cons to each side and may find ourselves favoring one thing over the other. The risk in categorizing each one as good or bad is that if you don’t take the path you wanted, you automatically fall into the path that feels more disappointing.
Reality is that living in the grey gives many more options, ones that you don’t even realize you may be sitting in. There is so much more possibility when you do not limit yourself.